Having a parent who is aging and has been diagnosed with Alzheimer‘s Disease is a traumatic event for both you and your parent. Since this disease is degenerative and progressive, it is wise to consider your long term options as early on in the disease as possible.
The patient may seem well and fit with odd moments of memory lapses in the early stages, and you might be forgiven for thinking that you can cope with this disease yourself at home. In reality the disease worsens and will eventually reach the point where the patient requires full time and constant care. Added to this, the patient may have personality changes and be confused, angry and blame you for their condition.
If the disease is in its early stages you can opt to take care of the patient yourself, but think of your entire family and their well-being too. Understand that the task is going to get more and more difficult and that you will need some kind of home care. Home care is when you have a support worker come and take care of the patient for part or most of the day while you go out and earn your living and take care of your own family’s needs.
Finally there will come a time where your loved one will need full time, around the clock care. You cannot do this alone, no matter that your good intentions are. This is the time where you need to consider a residential care facility or a full time live-in care giver. Only you can make the choice as there is no right or wrong choice. The right choice is one that best meets the needs of your and your own family.



